Step into your main character energy

It’s been quite a few years since I last participated in an art show—2018, to be exact! So, jumping back in feels both exciting and nerve-wracking. There are so many logistics to figure out—setting up a tent, displaying artwork, accepting payments. Needless to say, the past few weeks have been all about preparing, plus painting a lot to make sure I have pieces ready to sell.

Oh, and did I mention I signed up for two shows over back-to-back weekends? I may have lost my mind a little, but if I’m going to do this, I might as well go big!

A few years ago, I came across a creator who talked about “main character energy.” She pointed out how most people—especially women—often take on supporting roles. We’re daughters, moms, wives, caretakers. We pour so much into others that we rarely allow ourselves to be the main character in our own lives.

That hit home for me. For years, I made my art fit around everything else—mastering the art of the 15-minute creative session while my son was younger, squeezing in moments whenever I could.

But over the past year, I’ve started embracing my main character energy. That doesn’t mean abandoning my family or responsibilities, but it does mean being intentional with my time. I ask myself: Is this something I truly need to do, or can I delegate it? (And yes, sometimes it’s still easier to just do it myself!) But by putting systems in place to keep things running smoothly, I’ve made space for what matters—like applying to these art shows.

So, I want to ask you: Do you have main character energy when it comes to your life? Your art?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Hit reply and let me know if this resonates with you!